assuming gnc men who date women are bi or closeted and gay isn't 'dumb', it's realistic lol. most genuinely feminine men are same-sex attracted or identify as trans and want to 'become women'. ofc this doesn't mean all gay men are feminine, most of them are masculine because of the societal norms, the dangers of being visibly gay and just innate biology as well. although neurological studies prove that gay brain phenotypes have a slight inversion pattern, meaning our brains our slightly similar to the opposite sex. so there is an innate underpinning to gender-non-conformity, which is why a lot of gay people are gnc very young. this sort of unrealistic thinking just reinforces that it's somehow bad to be a femme gay man or and even the visibly gay people will be assumed het.. is that what you want? so you wouldn’t hurt the 1/1000000 gnc het man's pwecious fweelings? as if being assumed to be gay was anything bad anyway, meanwhile every gay person has to deal with being wrongly assumed to be straight every single day, gnc or not 😒

Lmao are you seriously implying people who hate TERFs secretly hate trans men Just Because.